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One Year Ago I Married My Best Friend




Perfect Couple

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My apologies to all of the women in the world who can not be married to my husband. 🙂 He is everything I’ve ever wanted or needed in a man.

Ben and I celebrated our one year wedding anniversary last week. I can’t believe that it has already been one year, yet at the same time I can’t remember life not being married.

This past year so much has happened. We’ve lived in Provo, Riverton, Rexburg, and Springville. We’ve both graduated from college, gotten pregnant, and started a career. We’ve taken some great trips like: Aspen, Moab (twice), Yellowstone, and of course our trip across the country.

For our anniversary Ben took me into Washington DC where we went to the most elaborate and expensive restaurant we have ever been to. We felt so out of place it was funny. We could barely understand our waiter and when our food came we really didn’t know what we were eating. The food looked beautiful and like it came out of a magazine! After we ate we walked around the District for a while and then went to the movie Get Smart. (I haven’t laughed as hard as I did in that movie in a long time.) It was the perfect evening and Ben spoiled me.

I absolutely love being married and can’t imagine my life without Ben. Everyone said that I would love him more as time went on, but when we got married I couldn’t imagine loving him more than I already did. They were right I love him so much more! He is my best friend and eternity just keeps looking better and better.

Our Road Trip Across the Country

Our trip ended up being so much fun. Long, but worthwhile. All except for Kansas that is! We ended up going through 11 states: Utah, Colorado, Kansas, Missouri, Iowa, Illinois, Indiana, Ohio, Pennsylvania, Maryland, Virginia. 

Colorado’s landscape is beautiful, but as we drove over and through the mountains we were grateful we were in our car and not a Uhaul truck. Kansas pretty much sucks. It seemed to never end and the whole thing was flat! Plus the high temperature, humidity, and tornado warnings added to our dislike of the state. Did I mention we hate Kansas. haha

Missouri was a little better than Kansas. However, the heat and humidity were still a factor. We stayed one night in the city Hannibal, which is the home town of Mark Twain. We were able to see a lot of stuff that he wrote about in his books which was neat.  We also stayed that night in an awful hotel. I was tired and ornery so Ben pulled up to the first hotel off of the freeway. It was TERRIBLE! As Ben got out of the car he was like oh there’s a dead mouse or bird.  I knew that was another bad sign-on top of the looks of the place. As we walked into the hallway, it wreaked of smoke.  Next as we tried to open our door it wouldn’t open so Ben went back to the manager and came back a few minutes later with the solution. Then as we entered the room we were put off again by the awful smells. Ben continued to unpack the car, making sure to get everything so as not to attract thieves, and I cried.  Being pregnant really brings out the emotional side! Needless to say we learned our lesson and stayed in nicer places the rest of the trip.

Missouri also has a city called Independence which holds a lot of significance to LDS members. It is the place where the Garden of Eden was, it was also were the new Jerusalem will be built, and it is where the early saints were driven out due to conficts with the locals. There is no LDS temple there, but there is a lot that Joseph Smith did in fact dedicate for a future temple.  The Church does not own the Temple lot at this point in time, but we do have a Visitor Center.  Ben and I were able to take a Church History tour with one of their sister missionaries. (Yeah for VC sisters!!!) My heart was truly touched as she told us of the hard times and the persecution that the Saints had to go through. The Saints were told that Independence would be Zion and I can’t help but think of how the Lord taught them a very valuable lesson during their stay.  Zion is not a specific location.  I’m guessing that when the Saints heard Joseph say that Independence would be Zion they thought they would settle there for good and be safe from persecution. Instead the Lord taught them, refined them, and continued them on their way out west. 

We were also able to visit Liberty Jail and see the awful circumstances the Prophet and 4 others endured for several months. The Prophet later said that it was like a Temple because of the revelations he received while imprisoned there.

While in Illinois we went to the Nauvoo temple.  Nauvoo is a tiny town and the Temple stands out beautifully. We were able to go through the Temple while we were there and can I just say I love Temple workers! One sister saw my big ol’ belly and said “oh, when’s your little pumpkin due?” After Ben and I looked at each other and said, “that was new”. That same day we visited Carthage Jail and had another spiritual experience. We took a tour and learned so much! For example, the prophet was not in the actual jail cell that all prisoners were supposed to stay in. The family who lived in the jail let Joseph and the others stay in their master bedroom upstairs. They also had them down for dinner at least once. (not a typical procedure for prisoners I’m sure.) 

Next we were off to Chicago. We stayed the night with Ben’s cousins Daniel and Heidi. They are incredible people and it was so great to get to visit with them even if it was only for a night. They have two little boys and a brand new baby girl. As Ben and I held their baby we were again given another reality check. WE ARE HAVING A BABY!! Anyway, the next day we got to meet up with one of my best friends Jill and her husband Greg. They were great tour guides and we had a blast walking around Chicago. We acted like we were going to eat at a super fancy restaurant on the 96th floor of a building so we could see the Chicago skyline without paying the hefty price. I’m a complete nerd because the whole time I was afraid they were going to discover our little plot and kick us out. Good thing they didn’t! Thanks Jill and Greg for taking the time out of your busy day and showing us around. We can’t wait until we can return the favor when you come to DC!! (SOON)

Man this is long. If you are still reading you are either a trooper or my mom. haha  Next, came the Football Hall of Fame which just happened to close 8 minutes before we got there. Ben cried! We did, however, get to see Notre Dame’s campus and famous football stadium. Our last stop was at the Kirtland Temple in Ohio.  The Community of Christ owns the Temple and their staff takes people on tours. Ben and I were the only ones in our tour and we got to ask all the questions we wanted. The Temple still has a spirit about it, and it was really neat to experience. We were so glad we stopped to see it. Again another testimony builder. 

We rolled into Virginia late Saturday night and were welcomed by Ben’s second cousins.  They have been amazing and are some of the nicest people we have ever met.  What a blessing family is! And that my friends is our road trip across the country.

 

Getting Started


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Well, I’m finally blogging about our trip across the country. I will begin of course at the beginning- how we got started. We left Monday June 9th and arrived in Virginia late June 14. The whole moving experience has been one where we knew almost nothing up until the moment we left.

First of all Ben’s work told us that the moving company would come and move us Saturday, June 7th. Earlier that week I began packing and getting ready. Little did I know until half way done that the movers actually box everything up for you and load it in the truck. Well, at least I didn’t do everything. Then, as Saturday nears we find out from the moving company that they can’t come get us until the next Thursday. We were so discouraged! After Ben used his persuasive skills on a co-worker she pulled some strings and said they could come on Monday and Tuesday. With that news we were pacified for the time being. Monday morning shows up and the movers came! As Ben got talking with them he realized that they were planning on doing everything that day-which was news to us. So after learning that we started thinking about leaving Tuesday morning after we cleaned the apartment. Then came my best friend to the rescue. Tiffany has been such a help each time we’ve moved. She is a Saint! She offered her FHE group to come and clean our place so we could take off immediately. Wow, what a blessing!! (Thank you so much guys. You’ll never know what that meant to us!) Before we knew it we were on the road.

It was the easiest move so far. The moving company packed everything up in one afternoon and then Tiff’s FHE group cleaned for us. It was all heaven sent because with the pregnancy I needed to rest and not stress.

Top 10 Best things about being Pregnant

Sometimes being pregnant can weigh down on you. Plus I seem to always hear negative things about taking care of a newborn. Things like the lack of sleep or how hard it can be to nurse etc. So today I thought that I should be more positive and write the top ten reasons why I love being pregnant.

1. Knowing that Ben and I are starting our family. Knowing that she is part of me and part of Ben.

2. Having people tell you you are cute-even when you’ve never felt further from it. (Oh wait I was trying to be positive!)

3. Feeling her kick and move inside of me. And giggling when she goes crazy or dances during American Idol.

4. Eating (eggs, strawberries, chocolate milk…)

5. Having Ben feel her kick.

6. Wondering what she will look like.

7. Buying cute baby clothes.

8. Feeling like a mom already.

9. No period every month and no birth control

10. Bigger chest

Well, overall pregnancy has its ups and downs, but like Ben pointed out to me earlier today, the downs pass. I love being pregnant and knowing that I will have Hallie with me soon.

Monthly Checkup

Today Ben and I went to see the Doctor for my monthly checkup. Last week I took the glucose test at the hospital and today we found out the results.

For those of you who don’t know what the glucose test is they make pregnant women fast for a few hours and then have them drink this carbonated orange soda type drink. Then you have to wait another hour before they take your blood. I had heard terrible things about the test and was not looking forward to it at all. I got up the courage and planned a strategic time to go without eating. (After Lunch) My lunch ended up being terrible and I was left hungry but there was no looking back. By the time I got to the hospital it had been 4 hours and then after drinking the nasty drink (I don’t do well with carbonation) I still had one more hour to go. I was hurting for food when the time came for the nurse to take my blood. I feel like such a sissy!

Anyway, today we found out that I am no wear near being diapedic. Women are safe if they are under 140 and I was 74. Iron levels are supposed to be around 36.5 and mine was 35. Doctor Nance said that the levels usually go down and so it might be a good idea to take some Iron supplement pills. I have also gained a whopping seven pounds this month. Which puts me, I’m ashamed to say, at a 21 pound weight gain. YIKES!

We also heard our little girls heart beat once again and found out that she is in position! Her head is down near the birth canal and everything looks good so far. Although the doctor did say that means more pain for me. Again YIKES!

Pregnancy runs in the family

Last weekend my cousin Jessie had a baby shower. It was the first time I had seen her in months and I was so excited to see how her tummy had grown. She got married just after Ben and I did. They surprised the family by getting married in Vegas! (Jessie is the one on the left.) Aimee, in the middle, is my newest cousin. She married Jessie’s brother Colby on St. Patrick’s day, also in Vegas.

Jessie is due June 26 and is having a little girl. They are naming her Brooklynn Ann. So Cute! Aimee is having a little boy and they are naming him Larry Colten, but he will go by Colten. She is due Aug 4. Then there’s me who is due Aug 11.

At the shower everyone in my family kept saying “there’s pregnant women every where!” It was pretty funny. They should see Ben’s side of the family- there are like 6 of us! On my side of the family up until this point only one of my cousin’s has had any kids. So in one summer my grandparents are doubling their grandchildren!

Yeah, for having babies! I am getting so excited to meet little Hallie!

High School Reunion


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Wow, after almost six years we finally all got together. Yesterday we met up at the PF Changs in Orem and talked for hours. Throughout high school we were best buds and yesterday it was like nothing had ever changed. Appearance wise we all look a little more mature but mostly just my hair color has changed. With the four of us we cover most lifestyles.

Shanna has been married for over four years now. (She met her husband during her senior trip.) Marci just celebrated her one year anniversary with her husband and still glows like a newly wed. Lena is still in the dating scene and as flirtatious as ever. (The waiter even asked her for her phone number and gave us free dessert-Thanks Lena!) And then there’s me of course~married and pregnant.

I honestly can’t remember the last time I had so much fun. We ate fabulous food and then stayed and talked for hours. I love these girls so much and couldn’t have asked for better friends. All three of them are amazing and such great examples to me. Thanks again girls for last night. Next time, lets not wait six years!

WASHINGTON DC

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We are headed back to my second home. Washington D.C. We decided to take the job with the Census Bureau which starts June 23. There are a million papers to fill out and documents to sign when working for the government. However, we are super excited and grateful that they will pay to move us out there. We plan on taking a week or so and visiting friends and family and church sites along the way. The furthest I have ever driven was to Washington State so this is quite the trip for me, especially being seven months pregnant. However, I am excited that we will get to see so many things along the way and it will be fun to just be with Ben. We have been apartment hunting all day, not to mention Ben’s trip out there before. It is not fun! I did find a few places that are in our price range we just hope they aren’t in too scary of neighborhoods. Good luck to us!

Congrats Ben on getting the job. You’re so strong!!!

Baby Shower

This past weekend my wonderful mother threw me a baby shower. I ended up having two: one Thursday night and one Saturday afternoon. The one on Thursday was for neighbors and relatives. It was awesome! I enjoyed talking and catching up with old friends and neighbors that I haven’t seen forever. (I shook their hands at the wedding reception, but we didn’t get to talk.) I’m not too into little games etc. so we mostly just talked and chilled-which was perfect to me. I was so grateful that people took time out of their busy schedule to come and support Ben and I in this next step of starting a family. I received so many cute clothes and much needed items like blankets and wash cloths etc. Again, people are so good to me! I’m not sure what I have done to deserve to be surrounded by such good people-I guess it’s just in people’s nature to be so good.

On Saturday some of my best friends came. We ate, laughed, and talked for a couple of hours. Again I was so grateful that they would come. It really meant a lot to me. It showed me that when people have parties etc. I should really try to go because the support means a lot. One of my very best friends Bree even drove down from Rexburg. (Thanks Bree-You’re seriously the best and I miss you already!!) I had friends from High school, the mission, and college. Again, Hallie got super cute clothes which included a little swimsuit for next year-it’s adorable! Everything just made me even more excited for Hallie to come. Although, I’m glad I still have a few more months! Thanks everyone for coming- I loved it!!!!

My mom did an amazing job putting everything together. The food was fabulous and everything looked so nice. She really knows how to throw a party. Thanks mom for doing so much for me!!!