It was two years ago today that Ben proposed. Yes, he proposed on April Fools Day! He had originally planned to propose earlier that weekend but after realizing that April fools was just a few days away, Ben being Ben, couldn’t pass up the opportunity to tell our future generations that we got engaged on April Fools Day.
Because it was General Conference that Sunday we lounged around all day and I never bothered to get ready. In fact I spent the whole day in sweats (his sweats mind you!). Later, Ben told me he kept waiting for me to get ready but finally gave up. Earlier that day that he had mentioned he had a special surprise for me. I remember thinking who does that! Who tells someone that they have a “special surprise” a.k.a JOKE to play on them. I spent the rest of the day watching my back and worrying.
After conference was over he asked me to come outside with him. “Oh no this is it” I thought. As we got to the drive way he asked me to show him where we first kissed. As we stood in that spot he pulled out a ring box, told me how much he loved me, and asked me to marry him. I asked if he was serious and he said, “dead serious”. After what was happening sunk in I told him the answer the Lord gave me after I prayed about it weeks before. And of course a YES was tagged onto the end. 🙂
After kissing in the drive way for awhile we decided we should go tell everyone. My parents of course knew because Ben had already asked my dad for permission.** Ben’s parents, however, were a different story. Ben hadn’t told anyone, except his cousin/best friend/roommate, that he had bought a ring and was planning on asking me. When we showed up at his parents house and announced we were engaged no body believed us. (Keep in mind that I had only been home from my mission 5 weeks!) They inspected the ring to see if it came out of a cracker jack box and told Ben they knew his humor and didn’t think this was funny. Finally Ben’s dad said, “I don’t care if it’s real or not I’m getting a granddaughter.” (Ben’s dad loves babies.) After every thing settled down they believed us and were in shock to say the least. (A happy shock I’d like to think.) 🙂
Three months later we were married in the Salt Lake Temple and it has been BLISS ever since.
Thanks Ben for loving me!!
**Funny story- Ben had called me a couple weeks previous to him proposing asking for my dad’s phone number. He claimed that he had information for my dad about his truck that needed to be fixed. I didn’t bat an eye. A few days later while with my family I asked my dad if Ben had ever called him. He said, “No, what for?” I responded, “Oh he was going to ask you for permission to marry me!” Both my parents’ mouth dropped open as they stared me down. I started laughing and told them to relax I was just kidding. There was no way we would get engaged so soon.
Little did I know that Ben had in fact called and talked to my dad. They knew already! We all still laugh thinking about how right I was with out even knowing it.
